RICHMOND — Robert Gray promised himself that this year, on the 25th anniversary of the terrorist attacks on Sept. 11, 2001, he would visit all three of the sites hit by hijacked airliners that day.
Gray, a retired battalion chief for the Arlington County Fire Department, fought the fires that engulfed part of the Pentagon after American Airlines Flight 77 slammed into the building at more than 500 miles per hour on that Tuesday morning. He led the monumental effort to shore up the damaged portion of the building to prevent its collapse, even as firefighters tried to quell the rooftop blazes that threatened to shut down the headquarters of the United States military.
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Robert Gray, retired Arlington fire battalion chief, stands
outside of the Pentagon in 2026.
MICHAEL MARTZ, TIMES-DISPATCH
He had donated the helmet and other fire gear he wore that day to the 9/11 Memorial & Museum in New York City, where 343 firefighters died after Al-Qaida terrorists flew two hijacked airliners into the twin towers of the World Trade Center in lower Manhattan.
But Gray had not visited the Flight 93 National Memorial in Somerset County, Pa., where a hijacked airplane, United Airlines Flight 93, crashed into a farm field near Shanksville after passengers fought the attackers and prevented them from targeting the U.S. Capitol or White House.
He finished his quest this month by speaking at a remembrance ceremony at the Pennsylvania site for the firefighters who responded to the crash, which killed 40 passengers and crew members.
"May we live worthy of the sacrifice they have made," Gray said, according to local news accounts.
The sacrifice includes the loss of 184 people at the Pentagon — 125 civilian and military employees, and 59 passengers on Flight 77 — whose story still isn't fully told at the site. The Pentagon is the only one of the three attack sites that doesn't have an education center for the 1 million people who visit each year.
"This has kind of been overlooked," Gray said.
No more.
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A rendering of the 9/11 Pentagon Memorial Visitor Education
Center is seen above.
Provided
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Dawn is seen at the Pentagon Memorial, which features 184
benches, one to honor each victim of the Sept. 11 terrorist attack
at the Pentagon.
Damon Moritz, U.S. Navy
The Pentagon Memorial Fund will break ground for a $100 million visitor education center on Saturday, the day after the 25th anniversary of Sept. 11, with plans to open it in 2029. The ground-breaking will be ceremonial, held at the National 9/11 Pentagon Memorial, which opened outside the Pentagon in 2008. The memorial features 184 benches to honor each victim, pointed to the sky from which the plane came for the passengers or the building that it hit for the employees.
Secretary of the Interior Doug Burgum has signed a "decision memo" to approve the National 9/11 Pentagon Memorial as an "affiliated area" of the National Park System, according to a source with knowledge of the agreement. Over the last several months, the source said the National Park Service has been collaborating with the Department of Defense and The Pentagon Memorial Fund to complete a three-way agreement.
The designation represents federal recognition of the site's historical significance, although the National Park Service would not own or operate it.
Virginia appropriated $1 million in its new budget this year to help build the center between the Pentagon and Arlington National Cemetery. The memorial fund is asking the state for an additional $2 million in the next fiscal year, which will begin on July 1. Congress appropriated $12 million for the project in the fiscal year that ends on Sept. 30, and the fund is seeking an additional $35 million in the federal defense appropriations bill for the next fiscal year, although the House of Representatives has proposed $15 million.
Private donors have already pledged upwards of $20 million. The memorial fund hosted a black-tie gala on Thursday night in Arlington in remembrance of the victims, survivors, families and first responders in the Sept. 11 attacks. The event also raised money for the 9/11 Pentagon Memorial Visitor Education Center.
"It's for the generations that were not there," said Joe Kornhoff, executive director of The Pentagon Memorial Fund.
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Joe Kornhoff, executive director of the Pentagon Memorial Fund,
is next to a plaque with the names of the 184 people killed in the
terrorist attack on the Pentagon on Sept. 11, 2001.
MICHAEL MARTZ, TIMES-DISPATCH
Kornhoff was a 15-year-old student watching the attacks unfold on television in a classroom at his high school in Fairfax County. His mother, Carol Ann, was in the building, a former soldier who worked as a civilian for the U.S. Army, adjacent to the side of the building that the jet struck.
"I know every Sept. 11th, my mom looks up at the sky and thanks God she is here," he said.
Kornhoff is a former Army captain who received a Bronze Star and a Combat Infantry Badge for his service in Afghanistan. He served on active duty in the Army for six years. He then worked for 11 years in various roles as a civilian employee of the service.
"For me, it changed my life," he said of the Sept. 11 attacks.
Gray, a Woodbridge native who retired in 2011 after 30 years with the Arlington County Fire Department, was attending a regional meeting of heavy rescue teams in Washington, D.C. on Sept. 11, 2001. He was the captain of the heavy rescue team at Fire Station 4, which would fight its way into the building to fight the fire and rescue survivors.
After reports of planes hitting the World Trade Center in New York, they were told to report to their duty stations. Gray headed back to Arlington, "and that's when it all started."
Fire Station 5, which was part of his battalion, was the first to reach the Pentagon. When Gray arrived, he said, "It felt evil to me, absolutely evil."
Asked often to rate the challenge of fighting the Pentagon fire on a scale of 1 to 10, he said, "My answer is 250. It always will be."
Gray told his squad, contrary to official practice, to conserve as much of their oxygen supply as possible before entering the blazing building, knowing that it would take time and tremendous effort to advance into the massive building.
"You had to save your air," he recalled in an interview last month at the 9/11 Pentagon Memorial. "And then, when you really felt like you were at serious risk, then you put your mask on. That's why we made it in much deeper, much deeper, and we made it out safe. It's all about calculating the risk."
At the same time, firefighters faced the danger of the building collapsing, which Gray said "would have taken 60 to 70 people out" as they fought the fires.
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On Sept. 11, 2001, firefighters work near the gap in the
Pentagon after terrorists crashed American Airlines Flight 77 into
the building.
BRUCE PARKER, Times-Dispatch
Over the next two weeks, he led a team to shore up the building, which is why he titled his 2024 memoir, "Shoring Up Ourselves: An Inspirational Story of Never Giving Up."
Gray, who later suffered a traumatic brain injury from a fall at home, still draws inspiration from the sacrifices and heroism he witnessed on Sept. 11. In 2019, he founded the "9/11 Ride of Hope," which organizes bicycle rides every year to commemorate the anniversary of the 9/11 attacks.
This year, he planned the ride on Thursday morning, the day before the anniversary, starting at Fire Station 6 in northwest Arlington and ending at Fire Station 5 south of the Pentagon.
"It's time to reflect on what we've experienced and show our concern for those lost on that day," Gray said. "All of the losses are the same."